Comments on: why I am a dud at parties http://www.caseymorgan.org/2009/12/why-i-am-a-dud-at-parties/ whacking, bereavement, God, etc. Sun, 05 Sep 2010 22:40:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Serenity Everton http://www.caseymorgan.org/2009/12/why-i-am-a-dud-at-parties/comment-page-1/#comment-841 Serenity Everton Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:28:27 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1411#comment-841 I've been thinking about this a bit. Hm. You know, Casey and casey, I love ShadowLane parties, and really they are the only public events I've attended. But they last 2-3 days. I've never been spanked by anyone in a public place, despite having been several times and stayed several days each time. That's not to say I haven't been spanked because I most certainly have, and I've been spanked in front of friends. So maybe I'm a dud, too? But, you know, I don't go to parties to watch people get spanked, although I've seen a few. And to me you wouldn't be a party dud at all, because I would be more interested in talking to you than spanking you anyway. And, if you cried, that would be all right, too. Hugs, s I’ve been thinking about this a bit.

Hm. You know, Casey and casey, I love ShadowLane parties, and really they are the only public events I’ve attended. But they last 2-3 days.

I’ve never been spanked by anyone in a public place, despite having been several times and stayed several days each time. That’s not to say I haven’t been spanked because I most certainly have, and I’ve been spanked in front of friends. So maybe I’m a dud, too?

But, you know, I don’t go to parties to watch people get spanked, although I’ve seen a few. And to me you wouldn’t be a party dud at all, because I would be more interested in talking to you than spanking you anyway. And, if you cried, that would be all right, too.

Hugs,
s

]]> By: PapaTomLA http://www.caseymorgan.org/2009/12/why-i-am-a-dud-at-parties/comment-page-1/#comment-840 PapaTomLA Wed, 16 Dec 2009 04:40:15 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1411#comment-840 Often I read your stuff - I've said this before - and I hurt for you. I wish there were something I could do to make it all go away. I have benefitted from knowing you, and I feel like I owe you much. Instead all I can offer is sympathy and kind feelings. You know, it is difficult for a man to admit that there is nothing he can do in a bad situation. It isn't a joke that we fix things, that's what we are, what we do. I agree that you are doing the right things, things I doubt I'd have the power to do were I in your situation. I admire what you do and what you are, and I think the last thing you should be is hard on yourself. While there is always the need to push oneself, it must be tempered by the circumstances. Casey, I expect that you will know when it's time to play. Until them, your new friends will be friends, just that. You will go further when you, and only you, are ready to go further than friendship. I wish you happiness, Casey. when it comes, you will be ready. Often I read your stuff – I’ve said this before – and I hurt for you. I wish there were something I could do to make it all go away. I have benefitted from knowing you, and I feel like I owe you much. Instead all I can offer is sympathy and kind feelings. You know, it is difficult for a man to admit that there is nothing he can do in a bad situation. It isn’t a joke that we fix things, that’s what we are, what we do.

I agree that you are doing the right things, things I doubt I’d have the power to do were I in your situation. I admire what you do and what you are, and I think the last thing you should be is hard on yourself. While there is always the need to push oneself, it must be tempered by the circumstances.

Casey, I expect that you will know when it’s time to play. Until them, your new friends will be friends, just that. You will go further when you, and only you, are ready to go further than friendship.

I wish you happiness, Casey. when it comes, you will be ready.

]]> By: Mija http://www.caseymorgan.org/2009/12/why-i-am-a-dud-at-parties/comment-page-1/#comment-839 Mija Wed, 16 Dec 2009 04:13:30 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1411#comment-839 For what it's worth, I think you're doing what you're doing just right. If I were you, I suspect it would be much the same. You are as C/casey, indeed, mourning Mark. Play is great and there's all sorts of course, including light-hearted stuff between friends. That would probably be the easiest for me if I were in your position, but it wouldn't touch the deep-down desires or self. I'm not sure what more to say other than that I think all you've done in the past year has been incredibly brave and strong. You constantly amaze me CDM. (BTW, there is an account on the 'net by Debbie about playing with you and Mark. I can send you the link if you like. It's always been a favorite of mine.) For what it’s worth, I think you’re doing what you’re doing just right. If I were you, I suspect it would be much the same. You are as C/casey, indeed, mourning Mark.

Play is great and there’s all sorts of course, including light-hearted stuff between friends. That would probably be the easiest for me if I were in your position, but it wouldn’t touch the deep-down desires or self.

I’m not sure what more to say other than that I think all you’ve done in the past year has been incredibly brave and strong. You constantly amaze me CDM.

(BTW, there is an account on the ‘net by Debbie about playing with you and Mark. I can send you the link if you like. It’s always been a favorite of mine.)

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