Comments on: anniversary http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/ whacking, bereavement, God, etc. Sun, 05 Sep 2010 22:40:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Eliane http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-938 Eliane Sat, 27 Feb 2010 15:37:31 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-938 So beautiful. A little late, but many virtual hugs to you. X. So beautiful. A little late, but many virtual hugs to you. X.

]]> By: Steven http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-937 Steven Fri, 26 Feb 2010 19:40:58 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-937 When my wife died, I lost a part of myself on which I had come to depend as the most reliable and necessary. I console myself with the thought, that if one is going to love someone truly excellent and be loved by them, their loss is going to be just that terrible. How else could it be? I don't think it too much of a stretch to suggest that the connection between tops and bottoms can be as powerful as that because it requires such a special, attuned, empathic connection that one cannot tell where one begins and the other leaves off. When my wife died, I lost a part of myself on which I had come to depend as the most reliable and necessary. I console myself with the thought, that if one is going to love someone truly excellent and be loved by them, their loss is going to be just that terrible. How else could it be?

I don’t think it too much of a stretch to suggest that the connection between tops and bottoms can be as powerful as that because it requires such a special, attuned, empathic connection that one cannot tell where one begins and the other leaves off.

]]> By: nilla http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-935 nilla Fri, 26 Feb 2010 18:15:03 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-935 Circle of life, circle of the rings, and a circle of friends IRL and here in this virtual universe to hold you through these dark hours. nilla Circle of life, circle of the rings, and a circle of friends IRL and here in this virtual universe to hold you through these dark hours.

nilla

]]> By: sandy http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-934 sandy Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:05:49 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-934 I can't cry right now because I'm standing reading this in the middle of f'n JFK airport. Dammit! Hang in there, babe. I can’t cry right now because I’m standing reading this in the middle of f’n JFK airport. Dammit! Hang in there, babe.

]]> By: cdm http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-933 cdm Fri, 26 Feb 2010 00:06:21 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-933 Thank you all for such warm, loving comments. Knowing that you're heard, and knowing that people care for you make a big difference to how the day feels. :-) Thank you all for such warm, loving comments. Knowing that you’re heard, and knowing that people care for you make a big difference to how the day feels. :-)

]]> By: Graham http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-932 Graham Thu, 25 Feb 2010 21:30:56 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-932 What they all said. (And what they didn't say.) This community is very blessed to have you, Casey. What they all said. (And what they didn’t say.)

This community is very blessed to have you, Casey.

]]> By: Jessica http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-931 Jessica Thu, 25 Feb 2010 16:45:26 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-931 I'm with Mster R here - I am almost speechless. But I'll try. First of all, all the people hjere are right, we can't really say anything that makes it better. This day will always, for you, carry a bittersweet memory, no matter how old you get. As a married woman myself, I remember my wedding day very well - it's one of the most important things you ever do. Like you, we had the 1662 vows, which were so suited to our style of life. And I can only imagine the trauma of losing the person closest to me - and although that day will come, it's be reading your work that I know it's possible, for all it's hardship. So to all those who will come after you, thank you. And lots of hugs. I’m with Mster R here – I am almost speechless. But I’ll try. First of all, all the people hjere are right, we can’t really say anything that makes it better. This day will always, for you, carry a bittersweet memory, no matter how old you get. As a married woman myself, I remember my wedding day very well – it’s one of the most important things you ever do. Like you, we had the 1662 vows, which were so suited to our style of life. And I can only imagine the trauma of losing the person closest to me – and although that day will come, it’s be reading your work that I know it’s possible, for all it’s hardship. So to all those who will come after you, thank you. And lots of hugs.

]]> By: Adele Haze http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-930 Adele Haze Thu, 25 Feb 2010 10:21:50 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-930 Hugs and hugs, and lots of love to you Hugs and hugs, and lots of love to you

]]> By: Emma Jane http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-929 Emma Jane Wed, 24 Feb 2010 23:08:59 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-929 I don't have anything to offer except hugs and appreciation for your beautiful words. I feel sadness at your loss and awe at your strength. I don’t have anything to offer except hugs and appreciation for your beautiful words. I feel sadness at your loss and awe at your strength.

]]> By: Miss Jules http://www.caseymorgan.org/2010/02/anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-928 Miss Jules Wed, 24 Feb 2010 21:28:41 +0000 http://www.caseymorgan.org/?p=1664#comment-928 Wow. That was so beautiful and powerful.. my heart aches having read that. Wow. That was so beautiful and powerful.. my heart aches having read that.

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